Even though we priests are ordained to share in the priesthood of Our Lord Jesus Christ, we are not divine. Like every human being, we make mistakes. Unfortunately, the mistakes we make can have lasting, even eternal, repercussions. For example, if a priest is unprepared for Mass and fails to say the correct words of consecration, the Mass would be invalid.
One of the areas where I have seen priestly mistakes cause long-term damage is in the sacrament of penance. An angry priest who yells at a penitent, a narcissistic priest who uses the sacrament to recruit people for his prayer or study groups by imposing participation as a penance, an unsympathetic priest who tells a wife to apologize to her abusive husband as part of her penance—these are real examples I have witnessed. Such actions can drive people away from the sacrament of confession for years, or even for life.
Some Catholics, unfortunately, belong to parishes where priests have taught that mortal sin is no longer possible, and as a result, they do not offer confessions regularly. Others simply never develop the habit of going to confession because their parents, their first educators in the faith, never taught them its importance.
Aware of these realities, many dioceses in this country, including ours, participate in The Light is On for You, a special evening of confessions for those who have been away from the sacrament for a long time. In our diocese, this event takes place tomorrow, Tuesday. In most parishes, confessions will be available from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m.
We will be participating as well, with confessions at the Cathedral from 4:30 to 7:00 p.m. Fr. Galles will begin hearing confessions at 4:30 p.m., coinciding with our regular daily Mass schedule. When he steps away to prepare for Mass at 5:15 p.m., Fr. Wind will take his place and continue hearing confessions until 7:00 p.m. After Mass, Fr. Crotty, Fr. Galles, and I will be available in the front of the church for confessions until 7:00 p.m.
If you, or someone you know, has not been to confession in a long time, I strongly encourage you to take this opportunity to be reconciled with the Lord. The Church requires that we go to confession at least once a year or whenever we are conscious of being in a state of mortal sin. If it has been more than a year since your last confession, consider this an invitation to return to the sacrament.
For those who go to confession regularly or who have only been away for a few months, we encourage you to use our normal confession times:
- Monday–Friday: 4:30–5:15 p.m. at the Cathedral
- Friday: 11:15–11:45 a.m. at the Cathedral
- Saturday: 3:00–3:45 p.m. at St. Boniface
- Sunday: 7:45–8:15 a.m. at the Cathedral, St. Boniface, and St. Joseph
Since all of our regularly scheduled confessions take place before Mass, they conclude 15 minutes before Mass begins. This ensures that the priest has enough time to attend to last-minute needs—such as recruiting a lector or servers or ensuring the candles are lit—and to prayerfully prepare for a reverent celebration of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.
Next week, we will also have our citywide Night of Mercy, offering additional opportunities for confession. Priests from across the city, both active and retired, will be available. This time, it will take place at Nativity Church in Morningside (Mater Dei Parish) on Monday, March 25, from 7:00 to 8:00 p.m.
As we continue our journey in this Jubilee of Hope, I leave you with the words of Pope Francis from Spes Non Confundit (Hope Does Not Disappoint), the Bull of Indiction for the Jubilee Year: